Any man who undervalues male headship is not likely to lead his family. They think it’s fine for their wives to carry the load spiritually, financially, and emotionally in the relationship. After all, we’re equals aren’t we?
Any man who overvalues male headship is likely to abuse his wife and children. A man who views his role as that of a domineering tyrant is not fit to have a wife. –Voddie Baucham Jr., What He Must Be…To Marry my Daughter