Lord, grant me the grace to be free from the excesses of this life.
Let me not get caught up with the desire for wealth.
Keep my heart and mind free to love and serve you.
Source: Sacred Space
Lord, grant me the grace to be free from the excesses of this life.
Let me not get caught up with the desire for wealth.
Keep my heart and mind free to love and serve you.
Source: Sacred Space
This past week at our elder team meeting, we started with celebrations. At Revolution, we start all of our meetings with celebrations. Whether it is a weekly staff meeting or creative team meeting. We always start positive and celebrate what God is doing at Revolution. It is so easy to critique and get negative, it is a great way to change how we think and how we look at life.
This past week, I started off by saying, “Let’s look at little celebrations, what are some little things that God is doing at Revolution.”
The reason? At churches, we are prone to look for just the big things. We want to see 100 people baptized, 50 small groups filled up, double the amount of people we had last week. None of these things are bad, in fact, those are huge things to celebrate. The problem is that the weekly life of a church often doesn’t look like this.
We leave a service disappointed because attendance or giving was down and miss that someone became a Christian, a marriage was saved, someone gave for the first time, a second time guest came back, someone decided to sing a long for the first time or someone takes communion for the first time. We miss all of these because we are looking for the big thing.
How would our churches and our lives change if we celebrated the little things. We celebrate little things with our kids. Think about potty training. Gavin, our two year old is potty training. If I celebrated the big things I would wait until he is potty trained and staying dry throughout the day and the night to say anything. But because I’m celebrating the little things, any day or night that he is dry is a win. Going to the bathroom on his own is huge (he gets an M & M for it).
What if our churches were the same way? We celebrate any and everything regardless of the size. God moves in big and small ways. They are all miracles and they all need to be celebrated.
A funny thing about life, leadership and leading a church is that opposition is inevitable. What is even more interesting is that opposition, while inevitable, won’t kill you. It won’t destroy your marriage, your life, your family or your church.
The only thing that can destroy you is you. The only thing that can destroy a marriage is the two people in a marriage. The only thing that can destroy a church are the people in the church.
When faced with opposition, temptation to quit or to sin, we have to decide to give in to that. We can fight or we can throw in the towel. Many marriages end, people quit dreams, churches split or close for a variety of reasons, but the final reason is always: they decided to give in.
Is that a generalization? Yes. Is that simlistic? Yes. But it doesn’t make it any less true.
I believe that life, marriage, family, dreams, church, leadership are hard. But not impossible. The greater your dream/vision, the greater the opposition and the harder the road. Staying married is harder than getting divorced. Raising kids is hard. Having integrity is hard.
Remember, no opposition can take you, your marriage, your family or your church down unless you let it. Things can only implode from the inside out.
“I believe in the doctrine of election, because I am quite certain that, if God had not chosen me, I should never have chosen Him; and I am sure He chose me before I was born, or else He never would have chosen me afterwards; and He must have elected me for reasons unknown to me, for I never could find any reason in myself why He should have looked upon me with special love.” - Charles Spurgeon (quoted in Humility by C.J. Mahaney)